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Avoiding humour in Business or Job Hunting. Then the joke’s on you ….



humourI believe humour has no place in business, careers or job hunting. It is important to be upright, professional and not lower yourself with attempts to win new friends, career or business opportunities through humour. After all it is common knowledge that you cannot be successful if you are laughing too much. It is important that you all (business owners, professionals or jobseekers) act in a serious manner and stop fooling around.

Ok enough of that as I am starting to sound like a grown up. For me the complete opposite is true. Throughout my early career I followed the above advice and kept work and humour apart. As time passed I realised that I had been ignoring a very powerful tool to help me successfully navigate the serious world of business and job hunting. “Good humour is a tonic for mind and body. It is the best antidote for anxiety and depression. It is a business asset. It attracts and keeps friends. It lightens human burdens. It is the direct route to serenity and contentment” – Greenville Kleisser.

4 reasons why you should embrace humour

Become a better communicator – I don’t know about you but I love listening to someone who can integrate humour into their message.
It grabs my attention and holds it. I guess this is kind of important when you are trying to get your point across. Humour can deliver active listening which is important when networking, presenting, meeting or job interviewing. Many people miss the fact that humour is a great way to get your message across even if it is a serious message.

Win more friends – I love engaging with my funny and positive friends and always accept their calls or requests to meet. I apologise to any friends I haven’t spoken to or met with for some time – the truth is out :-) “Good humour is one of the best articles of dress one can wear in society” – William Makepeace Thackeray. They say networking is the key to job hunting and business success in these tough times. Next time you step out into the world of networking (real world or online) don’t be afraid to let your humour run wild. Humour will help you grow your network and win new friends (Guess what it works – you already have one new friend – me!!)

Win more opportunities – Personally I don’t want to work with misery guts or work for misery guts. “For me, compatibility is a sense of humour, being able to laugh together; that is very important” – Felicity Kendal. I agree!! Should you use humour at job interviews – it never held me back. Should you use humour at business meetings/presentations – never held me back. If anything humour has opened many more doors than it has closed. Did I lose out on opportunities? Perhaps BUT then again did I really lose out?

Reduce stress and fear – Taking ourselves too seriously can have a negative impact on achieving our goals.  Humour and laughter lowers anxiety, releases tension and pressure but also helps diminish fear. “You can turn painful situations around through laughter. If you can find humour in anything, even poverty, you can survive it” – Bill Crosby. Perhaps we make growing a business or job hunting more pressurised, stressful and fearful by taking away an important release valve in humour/laughter.

If you agree with the above views then post a comment or share a funny business/job hunting story that will make me laugh. If you disagree with the above views then please post your full name so I can do everything in my power to ensure that we never meet :-)



The Author:

Paul Mullan is an experienced career and outplacement professional with 14 years experience working within careers, outplacement and recruitment in the UK & Ireland. He is a former owner of Eden Recruitment and founder of career firm Measurability in 2006. Paul has delivered outplacement programmes for many leading organisations and ran graduate career workshops for leading third level institutions. He has worked with many individuals helping them define and achieve career goals through creative approaches to personal marketing and job hunting. Paul integrates traditional strategies with new Web 2.0 strategies to deliver optimum results. He is known for his up to date, creative and friendly approach to delivering career solutions. Paul is a recognised career professional regularly commenting on career related topics in the national media. He has acted as Career Doctor with Irish Independent and he is currently an online career expert with RecruitIreland. http://www.measurability.ie

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  • http://www.channelship.ie/blog/ fred

    Brilliant Paul!… as usual. I’m definitely with the laughter club. It definitely makes your day easier and better.
    Speaking of humor in business, yesterday Niall shared a very cool video on the Bloggertone Facebook page about the typical mistakes when presenting with Power Point… Have look at the following video and share it with anyone in business, especially those that you know where horrible at presenting… You’ll get a laugh out of them as well! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpvgfmEU2Ck

  • Anonymous

    Thanks Fred – Nice video – Been killed a few times by powerpoint :-)

  • http://blog.myprojecttracker.com Barney Austen

    Most excellent Paul. A man after my own heart. In the past I’ve often used humour to diffuse awkward situations when things have gone “pear shaped” with a customer in a meeting. It works too – breaks the tension and allows things to get sorted.

  • http://www.btbtraining.com/blog Niall Devitt

    Paul, Do an average post just to make the rest of us feel better :) …. seriously though, great points raised why humour is a powerful and necessary business tool. I also think that you can extend all of these points to the online business world and social media.

  • Anonymous

    I saw a nice quote the other day: “The love of truth lies at the root of much humour.”

    On the other hand, in these days of international social mixing, we have to be aware, as Virginia Woolf said, that “Humour is the first of the gifts to perish in a foreign tongue.”

    Been there, done that!

  • http://www.livingroomblog.ie/ Angela_Carr

    Hi Paul,

    Loved this piece! Athough it sounds counterintuitive, having your sense of humour locked and loaded, shows you are at ease with yourself and your surroundings – and there’s nothing as attractive as confidence!

    When I first graduated from university, sometime back in the Paleolithic era, it was mid-recession and took almost a year to get a job. By the time I landed an interview, I’d already decided to go back to uni and re-train, so the pressure to make a good impression was off.

    I arrived at the office and was taken up flight after flight of stairs through a rambling building to the interview location – a conference room on the very top floor. As I entered, somewhat out of breath from lugging a suitcase-sized portfolio all the way, I walked forward laughing and shook the interviewers’ hands, saying, ‘I didn’t realise there would a fitness assessment as well as an interview!’

    They both looked blank for a moment and then burst out laughing, apologising profusely for it being the only room available.

    It set the tone for the very positive discussion that followed. And, yes – I got the job!

  • Anonymous

    I am thankful for laughter, except when milk comes out of my nose. ~Woody Allen

  • Anonymous

    @Barney – Cheers Barney. Yes it has proved my “get out of jail” in the past too :-)

    @Niall – Very true Niall. Online humour is great and works with social media. My difficulty is that people don’t always get my humour and it kills my joke having to send an email to explain it or worse a bunch of virtual flowers :-)

    @Lewis – For me Crashing & Burning is all part of the excitement.

    @Angela – Very good story – love it. I’d have hired you too!!

    @Greg – I am thankful for laughter except when I am bench-pressing free weights – Happened the other day and was quite embarrassing.

  • http://www.btbtraining.com/blog Niall Devitt

    lol, somehow I think you do fine :)

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  • http://www.seefincoaching.com/blog Elaine Rogers

    I was actually laughing as I read the first paragraph (mostly at myself, as I was disagreeing with it immensely), however, I sensed what you were going to say next.
    I use humour a lot in training and coaching sessions (great skill to have in both). Sometimes my analogies get the better of me, and I often end up looking a bit silly, but it tones down the serious mood that one often finds at the beginning of a training session. If we couldn’t laugh? – “Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.” ~Ken Kesey

  • Anonymous

    Thanks Elaine

    Don’t know what came over me that first paragraph but luckily I snapped out of it.

    Nice quote

    P

  • http://www.garrendennylane.ie/blog Lorna

    I have to admit I’m our accountant’s worst nightmare – have been attempting the ‘putting everything in a file/litle and often’ approach and it has been working to a point. I think we might be going back to the ‘everything in a big box and hand it to the bookkeeper’

    Good post, I found what you said about the spreadsheets interesting as that is what our current accountant has us putting the data on.

  • http://twitter.com/xcelbusiness Helen Cousins

    It’s a pain for business owners to have to keep rooting for stuff & you end up paying for it by being labelled “messy” by the acountant. Hours of futility are charged to your account & your accounts are priced accordingly. Accountants could help themselves & their clients by giving checklists to all clients though. For the record, I hate doing the books for my own business! Thanks Niall
    ~ Helen

  • http://twitter.com/xcelbusiness Helen Cousins

    Outsourcing to (or even employing) a good bookkeeper can be very cost effective. They will devote time to tracking down missing invoices, making sure you claim all your VAT back, ensure you are tax compliant, get the money in and out efficiently - no more lost weekends! This frees business owners up to work on the business – what they are best at! 
    I expect people, (even accountants), to challenge me on the spreadsheet point. Spreadsheets are commonly used, can cause serious errors, and are not giving valuable info to the client in most cases.  
    I did a lot of work with the small business unit of a big 4 accountancy firm and client spreadsheets were a nightmare. For instance – a chap who likes everything in order inserts 2 rows to pop in one missing invoice. Without boring you with a step by step – he updated the formula to add everything up. The result? All of the invoices that came before the inserted invoice were not added into totals. He used those totals to calculate his VAT payable and made an incorrect VAT return. He seriously underpaid his VAT as a result & was incredulous that he had made a mistake, because he had used a spreadsheet. He thought he had removed the potential for error…
    I won’t go on – it could be another blog post! Actually it will :)
    Thanks Lorna.
    ~Helen

  • http://www.smartsolutions.ie/blog/ Elaine Rogers

    Great timely piece Helen. Spreadsheets burned me badly a couple of years ago when I was relying on them for my debtors. Indeed I was using an accs package to some degree but relying on spreadsheets too much (because I am good with them). I was so good, I missed invoicing 2 clients for work done. 1000 euro was finally retrieved the following year (because I have great clients) but I agree about relying on spreadsheets.

    Little and often, I am a firm believer, but I don’t do it!!! I leave everything for a couple of months, and then because I do have a great filing system, and am highly organised, blitz everything in half a day.

    Book-keeping, I am beginning to think it is a good idea to outsource a couple of hours a week/month, depending on the business, because like you say, it gives back valuable time to the business owner, if even just their Saturday morning

  • http://twitter.com/xcelbusiness Helen Cousins

    Some good points there Elaine  – a nice addition to the post. Thank you,
    ~ Helen

  • http://www.ecoevolution.ie Mary Gethings

    When I started the business I was very lucky to be introduced to an excellent accountant who is also a great business advisor. He recommended a bookkeeping software package and showed me the basics I needed to know to get started and then over time he went through it in greater detail. I would be completely lost without it.

    I am definitely going to start using lever arch files for my paperwork. At present I am putting invoices etc into files in a filing cabinet but I find over time they get mixed up and completely out of order. I receive a lot of invoices digitally but I have to admit at times I don’t save them immediately. Days later I have to trawl through my inbox looking for them. A real headache and a waste of time.

    I totally agree with your comment about speadsheets Helen. I would highly recommend a bookkeeping software package as it gives detailed information on how the business is doing at the press of a button.

    An excellent post Helen which has been added to my favourites for future reference.

  • http://www.ecoevolution.ie Mary Gethings

    When I started the business I was very lucky to be introduced to an excellent accountant who is also a great business advisor. He recommended a bookkeeping software package and showed me the basics I needed to know to get started and then over time he went through it in greater detail. I would be completely lost without it.

    I am definitely going to start using lever arch files for my paperwork. At present I am putting invoices etc into files in a filing cabinet but I find over time they get mixed up and completely out of order. I receive a lot of invoices digitally but I have to admit at times I don’t save them immediately. Days later I have to trawl through my inbox looking for them. A real headache and a waste of time.

    I totally agree with your comment about speadsheets Helen. I would highly recommend a bookkeeping software package as it gives detailed information on how the business is doing at the press of a button.

    An excellent post Helen which has been added to my favourites for future reference.

  • Prashant

    Spreadsheets are no longer advisable. Even desktop accounting software is passe. The best solution for small businesses would be to go for an online accounting software like the one we offer at Zoho: Zoho Books. There are numerous benefits to move your accounting to web; you need not worry about backup, it is accessible anywhere and anytime; your accountant can just login to the service and review your transactions online and lot more.

  • http://twitter.com/xcelbusiness Helen Cousins

    The voice of experience speaks volumes! Thanks for adding to the post Mary.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=622376023 Jennifer Dunn Escalona

    Great tips! To avoid the “big box” approach (and the huge invoice from my accountant that goes with it) I use Outright.com in conjunction with Shoeboxed. Outright pulls all my info in from my bank accounts (full disclosure: I work with them) while Shoeboxed (which I don’t work with but love, love, love) is a real paperwork saver. They send you a big blue envelope every month that allows you to send in your receipts by mail. They then digitize your receipts and export them into your Outright account so your expenses are accounted for and anybody who needs to see your receipts can log in and see them digitally. It works wonders for eliminating the shoe box, hence the name!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Aramante-R-T-Browne/1300713143 Aramante R T Browne

    Bank statements, credit card statements provide the bulk of your book keeping needs so concentrate on the non documented like cash transactions use a simple cash management software like CashDispatcher which does require extensive training to book all cash transfer, cash transactions or cash deposits.  For a business with a POS software system cash transactions can be paid via most POS systems however if the transaction amount is higher than cash in drawer this is where CashDispatcher is indispensable.

  • http://twitter.com/xcelbusiness Helen Cousins

    Why, thank you ;) ~Helen

  • http://twitter.com/CLILmaterials Robin Yu

    I think humour is essential in British business and dangerous in international contexts. There is no doubt that the American way – gushing passion & earnestness for a product – is far more influential in international business and British people’s unease with that (and their jokey approach) may lose them respect in certain circles. What do you think?