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Goal Setting Run Amok?



Don’t think about white bears.

We hear a lot of goal setting and, as a coach, this is one of the most common activities I do with my clients. So how could goal setting be bad? There is an interesting post from Psyblog that discusses the downside to goal setting.

So what’s the bPolar Bearig deal?

Goals are necessary. They show us the way to go. If my business needs more clients or I need to get administrative tasks done, it helps to focus the thought into a mini-action plan. However, the study cited in the Psyblog post pointed to three downsides that make goal setting a bizarre kind of feedback loop:

  1. Too specific: According to author, if we make the goals too specific then we focus only on the process and not the purpose behind it.
  2. Too many: Our brains cannot focus on more than 3-5 items at a time. Having too many goals just feeds into our insecurities and feelings of overwhelm.
  3. Too soon: According to the study, it encourages short term thinking. For a small business, this could set up a reactive posture and it becomes subject to the whims of its customers and circumstances.

But what about the goals you’ve already set?

The best written goals (yes, get them out of your head) have 3 components: specifics (what you’re going to do), measurements (how do you know you met the goal) and a deadline (a specific date or length of time). These should fit neatly into your business plan. Start with your business vision.  The goals are how you make the purpose of your business happen. If a goal does not support your vision, it’s probably worth re-evaluating the goal. It may sound like a good idea and other small business owners might be doing it but if it doesn’t fit, there is a good chance it will create stress for you.

In his book, 59 Seconds, Richard Wiseman details his study of the research of what works and doesn’t work for achieving goals. Curiously, he found that many of the techniques recommended by professionals are either ineffective or even harmful. Remember how I started this post with the sentence, “don’t think about white bears“? As you’ve been reading this post, how many times have you wondered about white bears? Trying to ignore your thoughts is thought suppression. We’re often advised to think only positive thoughts about how wonderful things will be when we’ve completed our goal. Often this is couched in terms consistent with the Law of Attraction or being a magnet for good vibes. Supposedly we’ll sabotage ourselves if we think negatively so we’re to stop thinking negatively. However, our brains don’t work that way. The more you try to avoid the thought, the stronger the thought becomes.

Wiseman also recommended against simply imagining how wonderful everything will be when you achieve your goal. Wiseman argues that you will engage in mental escapism rather than the hard work of making that goal reality.

The commonsense approach to achieving your business goals

  1. Write down your goal and review it on a regular basis.
  2. Set goals that fit with your business vision so you don’t waste time and money
  3. Limit your goals to 3-5 at a time so you don’t overwhelm yourself
  4. Be willing to modify or change goals if they don’t fit
  5. Keep track of how you are progressing
  6. Find an accountability partner and tell him/her what you are doing
  7. Reward yourself along the way (wonderful procrastination prevention)

Your goals don’t have to run amok. Good things are going to happen when you achieve your goals! It just takes time, planning and action.

You can stop thinking about white bears now… (wink, wink)



The Author:

Elli St.George Godfrey guides small business owners as they expand in their own community or internationally using her 3 Keys Coaching process helps clients not only navigate growth stages. With each stage of the 3 Keys coaching process, we tackle strategic planning, goal setting, managing change, organizational development and managing the stress and feelings of overwhelm that often plague small to mid-size business owners and executives. This results in clients feeling confident in identifying and developing strategies to be more effective leaders, plan more creatively, increase revenues and overcome the fears and obstacles that interfere with building thriving small to mid-sized businesses. I am also Chief Community Manager of Kaizen Biz and Host of Twitter chat, #KaizenBiz (a chat that uses the concept of "kaizen" for continual improvement in how we think and act in business). Please visit www.abilitysuccessgrowth.com/about/ to learn more and I look forward to meeting you in a complimentary coaching session. http://www.abilitysuccessgrowth.com

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  • http://twitter.com/fredchannel Fred

    Good post Elli. I like point 7, “reward yourself”. It probably sounds the easiest, obvious and effortless point for everyone but I bet most of the people forget to do it. Besides procrastination, not rewarding yourself makes you see all your goals the same: a whole bunch of never-ending work. Boring…

  • Anonymous

    Paul,nnYou are not alone with goal setting! Start with “why”. What is the purpose of your blog? Then the goals make more sense. Granted, accomplishing the goal is the best reward, you can create milestones to show progress and reward yourself as you reach these milestones. This develops a track record of success. As you know, success begets success!

  • Anonymous

    Fred,nnI like point 7 too! I’m not sure where we got the idea that achieving our goals should be equivalent to climbing Mt. Everest (and even the climbers celebrate reaching each stage of the climb). For most business goals, we need to see our incremental progress and acknowledge it. The best part is that the rewards can be any size from candy to time off from work.

  • http://www.seefincoaching.com/blog Elaine Rogers

    Now I have an image of a big blue bear.nnI agree with overwhelm, and setting only a certain amount of goals.nGoals need to also be identified as long-term, medium-term, short-term and instant (I am trying a goats cheese tartlet tonight)nVery good points Elli, and I would add:nSometimes when we meet “overwhelm”, it can be hugely releasing to move back a little, and create smaller steps. Small steps are also great for procrastination, they can almost fool us into thinking we are successful at procrastination, when really, little things are happening to push us ever closer.nnDisclaimer: slow doesn’t mean “sloth” slow, there has to be at least minimum momentum :)

  • Anonymous

    Haha! You’ve got a blue bear! nnLove your correction about slow not equaling sloth. You can draw things out so you are going at a painful pace. Definitely a quick way to procrastination! nnThank you for adding to the conversation of how goal setting can run amok! Always good to team up with you!

  • http://www.smartsolutions.ie/blog/ Elaine Rogers

    Any strategy needs to include the all-important follow up. No point in letting the trail just fizzle away into nothing after all the hard work of setting it up in the first place. Thanks Niall, I agree completely with your comments.

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    Have I to publish a new blog post on my blog and than add the link of article at Bizsugar in “Rock your biz”category?

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    Thanks Nishada, Delighted that the post helped and I can be guilty too! :)

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